It's an analogy.
Imagine what you want is on the other side of a huge wall.
Therapy is all about you and the wall. How did the wall get there? Who built it? Dad? Mom? Your homeroom teacher? Did you build it? And on and on and on. This ain't that..
Coaching is Yee ha! We’re going through that wall! Or over it. Or under it. Buy a ladder? Drive a Volvo through it? Perhaps we blow it the fuck up. I know a guy that has dynamite, let’s ask him. Feeling defeated? Let’s take action to get your head straight and get back at it.
I'm invested in you taking action on your goals, dreams and vision for your life.
And at the same time, while you're pursuing the life you want, you should be loving the life you have. So, if we need to deal with your shitty boss or your significant other driving you up the wall, or your living situation, we take that on too. If you’re not basically happy, excited and brave it makes everything that much harder, and why would you want to be living that way anyway?
What this is
This is individual coaching/mentoring specific to you. It’s not a one-size-fits-all program. Our work together is designed by you and I to get you exactly what you want
- We start with you and your story, so I can understand who you are.
- We get clarity on your vision of what’s next for you.
- We find the actions you can take that move you ahead and are aligned with your abilities and advantages.
- A healthy mindset so you can love your life while working your ass off on what you want.
- Accountability.
- Lather. Rinse. Repeat.
What we'll do
We generally meet weekly on Zoom but you have full access to me via email, text, WhatsApp, etc.
Initially, we get an idea of your situation, then we start working out what you’re going to do that takes advantage of all of your assets—from your abilities to your portfolio of work to social network. Especially, we cultivate your ideas. I say this one phrase a lot when coaching: play your own game. I don't believe in competing with others. I believe in doing something that only you can do. That's the thing to figure out.
There’s homework and there’s respectful accountability.
We work through obstacles and issues as they come up; we shift the plan as needed. We work together for as long as needed, generally in three-month increments, but it depends on the size of the change you want to make.
And we have fun! Because if it ain’t fun, why bother?
What it costs
- Single sessions: $250
- 6-session package: $1500
We typically work together in 3-month increments, but you can start with a single session to see if we're a good fit.
By the way, sometimes all the wall deserves is to get pee'd on.